HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: FIL & Husband Blues

SCENERIO:  Times are hard now a days, and ends just are not meeting.  Husband tells his wife to ask her Father for a loan.  Wife refuses to do it, because she knows that her father doesn't like her husband 100% for unknown reasons, and she doesn't want to add any fuel to the fire, by making her father feel like her husband isn't a  good provider.  She tells husband that we will find a way with Gods help.  Husband says ok, but he doesn't understand why his FIL doesn't like him, afterall he's been with his daughter for over a decade and has only asked for help once, and that was for their wedding, and shouldn't he want to help if his daughter, and grandkids are in need?