SCENARIO: A good female friend of your husbands is in town, and they want to go out on the town for old time sake and catch up, but you can't go because of a previous commitment. How would you feel about your husband going out with a female friend without you?
SCENARIO: My friends husband is a complete, another word you call a donkey starting with A. He doesn't listen to her, he doesn't do things for her, he's completely unreasonable. He asks her to do things for him that are totally difficult for her to do, but are really easy for him to do for himself. He doesn't have good communication at all. My friend is constantly upset with her husband, and shares these hard times with me. I don't want to come in between my friends marriage, and I don't want anything to happen with my friendship with her, but I'm tired of seeing my friend upset. I tell her to talk to her husband. Look out for herself, cause if she doesn't do it nobody will. I tell her to think of the example she and her husband are setting for their children. No matter what I tell her it seems to go in one ear out the other. She does not stand up for herself at all. How do I be a good friend, and stay a good friend in a situation like this?
Just recently, they received a signed commendation from President Obama with a promise of an official invitation to the White House to meet him.Have you ever had someone compare their marriage to yours and make you feel like she does things so much better than you do? Like because she doesn't face the problems that you have you're irrelevant? or because she's been there done that you're overreacting? How do you deal with this kind of woman?
