Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
After speaking with some of my friends, family & sistas we all agree that it takes us, as women a little bit longer to calm down after an argument. Why do men think we can just shut down like that and get happy? Me personally I need a few hours, sometimes a few days. How do you get over and argument and get to making up?
Monday, September 26, 2011
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Monday, September 19, 2011
if she has a need and you can fulfill it.
Don't even ask why.
That's why you are married to each other.
To serve each other.
Let go of the anger
Let go of the what ifs
Why spend valuable time being upset
Serve the one you'll spend the rest of your life with
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Monday, September 12, 2011
When you get motivated, you can accomplish almost anything. You can get motivated to lose weight, get motivated to exercise, get motivated to study, get motivated to write a book, or get motivated to do anything possible to make sure your marriage is successful.
Understand Your Life Purpose
Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.
- Judy Garland
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
After being in a marriage for a while, its so much harder to keep those flames burning, so you've been trying to come up with ways to keep the flames in your relationship. You've been planning sexy date nights, sending sexy text, trying to have intimate conversations, seeking compliments, etc. One day your spouse keeps the computer screen open, and is logged on to fb. You read it cause its in your face. You realize that some of the same things that you've been trying to get your spouse to do with you, he's been doing for someone else via facebook. How do you deal with this?
Monday, September 5, 2011
Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.
– Barnett R. Brickner
I love this quote, cause it basically tells me that you get what you put into your marriage. If you act like you don't need anyone, if you were raised to not depend on anyone and you bring that to your marriage, then most likely that wall, that independence will grow in your marriage, and you will not get the full affect of becoming one with your spouse. Think about the choices you make, if after thinking you realize that there are negative things that you have brought into your marriage we motivate you to put in the positive. Make a change...