MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: You get what you put in...

Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.
– Barnett R. Brickner

I love this quote, cause it basically tells me that you get what you put into your marriage.  If you act like you don't need anyone, if you were raised to not depend on anyone and you bring  that to your marriage, then most likely that wall, that independence will grow in your marriage, and you will not get the full affect of becoming one with your spouse.  Think about the choices you make, if after thinking you realize that there are negative things that you have brought into your marriage we motivate you to put in the positive.  Make a change...