WORDLESS WEDNESDAY

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY

You and your spouse playing the silent treatment. Niether one want to give in. How do you break those barriers?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us~Ralph Waldo

The act of positive thinking can make a huge difference in your relationships. If your spouse is down, turn it around with words of affirmation and encouragement. Help them transition from their current thoughts to a positive outlook filled with hope. You can stop looking at what appears to be happening and start looking at what is happening for you. For everything is possible to him who believes.

LEARNING TO FORGIVE

The willingness to forgive is an important ingredient in a successful peaceful, happy, positive relationships. The ability to forgive will be a useful tool in your relationship if it use in a timely and effective way.

I think the first way to start is learning to first forgive yourself for your own imperfections. Then understanding that your mate is imperfect also.

Now forgiveness is not about letting the other person get off the hook for their mistakes. Its primary function and value is to let you off the hook from damaging consequences of carrying around suppressed negative feelings.

Just consider all the benefits of forgiveness and what it can do for your life. It will release you from negative feelings, allow you to be free and move forward in your relationship.

Forgiveness is not an easy thing to do especially when someone that you love cause you pain BUT if you learn and practice forgiveness then you gaining power of your life and not allowing another person action dictate yours.

I'm not sure how many I will reach with this topic but if anybody who read this post and is holding on to negative feelings..let it go! and learn to forgive.

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY

When a spouse is unfaithful, What fuels an affair?

• Hungry Hearts


• A yearning for connections


• Hurting Hearts


• Mourning the loss of romance


• Aching From the Lack of Connection


• Foolish Hearts


• Giving up on Romance


• Selling out to false connection

IS MARRIAGE FOR YOU?

Marriage is a beautiful convenant between a man and a woman but lets face it,not everyone is good at everything, the ability to get and, more importantly stay married is a little more difficult than it looks on the surface. A successful marriage is comprised of many constantly changing components requiring regular maintenance, and a person unwilling or unable to put in the work should not undertake the adventure. Marriage is not for everyone, unfortunately that realization comes after the vows for the misguided who never should have married in the first place. It takes a special personality to thrive within the boundaries of marriage, and a special mate to help balance the relationship of two different individuals and steer it in a singular direction.

I think if more people ask themselves are they really cut out for marriage. Then maybe we will have less failed marriages.

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