Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Inappropriate?

Do you think its fun or inappropriate to sneak away with your husband during social events?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Keep Going...

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Marriage Business

Some say that if you treat your marriage like a business, then the divorce rates won't be so high.  Examples: 

Have great customer service
Know your product (Your spouse)
Earn your customers business
Never make excuses, only solutions
Plan for success
Mix Business with Pleasure 
Set goals you would like to achieve
Never be late
Vacations are a must

Do you agree with this line of thinking?

Motivational Monday: The Reason...

This time of year its easy to get caught up in the Black Friday deals, the shopping, the who gets what, that we forget the real reason of Christmas, the real reason of the holidays. 

To celebrate the birth of Christ in his human flesh who died on the Cross to pay for your salvation and destroy all the works of the devil in your lives! That is what Christmas is all about!

So, at this time so many are disappointed with what the recieve as gifts of what they can't get for their kids, etc., but we motivate you to take this time and remember the real reason for the season, and just share the experience with your family, appreciate your family, and remember that God always finds away. 

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Date Night

How often do you have date nights?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: How?

Today I want to flip the switch, and ask you how do you stay motivated in your relationship?  What keeps you going? 

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: I want....

Do you and your husband exchange Christmas list?  What do you want for Christmas?

Motivational Monday: Don't be Discouraged...

There is only one person in life that looks more wonderful the closer you get to Him. That Person is God. Outside of Him, we all tend to look a little better at a distance. This, in my opinion, is why marriages tend to take a little dip after the wedding day.

There is not one person in the world that can meet your every need, including your spouse. Only Christ can do that.

Don't be discouraged you always have someone watching, and guiding you along the way...

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Dating without your wife?

SCENARIO:  A good female friend of your husbands is in town, and they want to go out on the town for old time sake and catch up, but you can't go because of a previous commitment.  How would you feel about your husband going out with a female friend without you?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Marriage advice

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Do's and Don'ts

Sometimes people aren't so supportive, or don't understand what marriage is all about.  Sometimes your Spouse may get things confused about what they should do, and sometimes you may get confused.  In terms of wrong vs right what are the things that you do and don't do in your marriage? 

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Rejoice...

Its so easy to welcome, and be happy over the good things, but today we want to motivate you to welcome the bad, you never know if its going to turn out good....

This is the day which the Lord has made;
we will rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalms 118:24

Wordless Wednesday: HE WON!!!!!

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: MOM on FB vs KIDS on FB

What do you think about having your children under 16 on facebook?  Do you allow them?  Do you believe their should be a limit to your commenting, liking your childrens status updates on FB?  Would you scold your children on FB?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: One day at a time...

Take things one thing at a time

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

No matter, how much traffic there is, no matter how many dishes are in the sink when you leave, no matter how many times you have to tell your kids to finish dressing no matter how much work  is on your desk, be motivated to take things one thing at a time, one day at a time. 

Wordless Wednesday: Sisters helping Sisters

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Politics..

So I'm a little scared to go here, but I'm going to anyway. 

Who do you think is the best canidate?

 

Either way, PLEASE, go VOTE!!!!!!!!!

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: He's there always...

Wordless Wednesday

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Stay Motivated

People often say that motivation doesn't last.
Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily.
- Zig Ziglar

Wordless Wednessday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: I know I can't change you but...

Usually that one thing that attracted us to our mates, is the same thing we end up not being able to stand.  If there is one thing you could change about your mate what would it be?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Support

I saw this picture, and it made me feel and think of 2 things:

 

1.  I thought about the support and love that the Organizer of RWOC needs during her berevement from her Sisters, and I wanted her to know that we have her back, love her and need her to know that RWOC is in good hands.

 

2.  I thought about how at times we all get so overwhelmed with the things in our life that they smother us.  So I saw this picture and I thought, "Why am I feeling like this, all I can do is what I can."  Build off your support, start where ever you are, and do what you can. 

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Football vs Sexy Time

Its football season, and after being with my husband for 12 years, I know when to ask him a question, when to let him focus, and when to distract him.

Do you let your husband enjoy his football time, or do you bring the sexy out to distract him?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Rules to a Happy Marriage

Being Happy in  your marriage is great motivation for staying happy, and these rules are a great start.  Stay motivated!!!!

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Juggling

All of the women I know either go to work or stay at home, no matter what their work status is they're the ones that do homework with the kids, go to teacher meetings, give discipline to the kids, etc. As well as take care of the other things in their lives such as, financial obligations, keep it hot between her and hubby, etc. 

How do you deal, would you like your husband to help out more with the kids schooling, or other parts of your life? 

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: I wish for you...

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Comfort on difficult days,

Smiles when sadness intrudes,

Rainbows to follow the clouds,

Laughter to kiss your lips,

Sunsets to warm your heart

Gentle hugs when spirits sag,

Friendships to brighten your being,

Beauty for your eyes to see,

Confidence for when you doubt,

Faith so that you can believe,

Courage to know yourself,

Patience to accept the truth,

And love to complete your life.

God Bless you!

 

~ Source Unknown ~

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: S on my chest

We cook, we clean, we take care of the kids, we work, we have businesses, we go to PTA meetings, we make reservations, we travel, we do home work, we go to school, we schedule projects, we take out the garbage, we sew up wholes, we put it down in the bedroom, we wash noses, we make repairs, we keep our bodies right.  WE DO IT ALL!! We wear the S on our chest.

How does your husband show his appreciation?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Loving Me...

As a woman we tend to take care of others, run around doing for others, and showing others we love them.  This Motivational Monday I want to motivate you all by telling you to love yourself.  Listen to yourself.  Free yourself, and tell your husband, "I love me so I can love you."

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: 9/11

What are your 9/11 memories?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Think like a boss...

 

They say that the man is the head of the house, but the woman runs the house.  Today we motivate you to keep that going.  Be positive, have ambition, go get it ladies.  Act like a lady.  Think like a BOSS!



Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Being a good friend...

SCENARIO:  My friends husband is a complete, another word you call a donkey starting with A.  He doesn't listen to her, he doesn't do things for her, he's completely  unreasonable.  He asks her to do things for him that are totally difficult for her to do, but are really easy for him to do for himself.  He doesn't have good communication at all.  My friend is constantly upset with her husband, and shares these hard times with me.  I don't want to come in between my friends marriage, and I don't want anything to happen with my friendship with her, but I'm tired of seeing my friend upset.  I tell her to talk to her husband.  Look out for herself, cause if she doesn't do it nobody will.  I tell her to think of the example she and her husband are setting for their children.  No matter what I tell her it seems to go in one ear out the other.  She does not stand up for herself at all.  How do I be a good friend, and stay a good friend in a situation like this?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: HAPPY LABOR DAY!!!

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Relationships and facebook

I've heard from so many people that are saying that their spouse refuses to be on facebook, or they refuse to even friend they're spouses on facebook, because it creates drama.  My question is, is it facebook that's ruining a lot of relationships or is it the relationship?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Happiness...

Some tell me that I've been with my husband for an eternity.  12 years by today's standards is an eternity.  So one day I was thinking what has kept me with my husband for so long, other than God?

I would have to say my happiness.  I know that I cannot imagine my world without my husband.  I don't want to.  I know that I only want his words to wake me up in the morning, and his words to put me to sleep at night.  I know that I only want him to hold me.  These are the things that bring me happiness, why not work hard for my happiness. 

This motivational Monday, we would like to motivate you to work hard for your happiness.  You know why? Cause you deserve it!

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Reality TV

It seems like everybody and anybody is either on a reality tv show or watching one.  If your marriage had its own reality tv show what would it be called and why?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Fight for your marriage!

Today we would like to motivate you to continue to fight for your marriage!

5 Ways To Fight for your Marriage:
1. Seek outside counseling. If your spouse isn’t willing to attend, you attend to get help for enablers.
2. Set boundaries stick with them.
3. Don’t internalize your spouse bad behavior. Understand its not you who is causing them to act out.
4. Find the right time to address your concerns with your spouse but don't nag!  (I hate this "N" word but it motivates me not to do it.)
5. Pray for God to step in change your spouse ways. Ask God to give your spouse the will power to want to change.

Always stay positive remind your spouse that you love them.

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: In good times and bad...

We vow to stay with our partners in bad times, and in good in sickness and in health, etc.  What if lately there have been more bad than good, What if your partner has had more sickness and is not able to provide for you mentally and physically as before.  What do you do? 

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Kids are our future..

It saddens me to see a child reenact the negative actions of their parents.  As a parent when the school year starts I think one worry that I'll always have is how will other kids influences affect my child?  Will he get alone with the other kids?  Will he know right from wrong and act on the right?  Are his friends parents a big part of the children's lives?

This Motivational Monday I would like to motivate all parents to look towards your kids for motivation.  Their the one thing that you as a couple have to be on the same page about.  Teach your kids, love your kids, prepare them so that they can make our futures better.