Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Arguments and Making up

After speaking with some of my friends, family & sistas we all agree that it takes us, as women a little bit longer to calm down after an argument.  Why do men think we can just shut down like that and get happy?  Me personally I need a few hours, sometimes a few days.  How do you get over and argument and get to making up?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY

When you're feeling overwhelmed, and you can't figure out the difference between your husband and your kids, its time to bring in your girls, yours Sisters, and have a Ladies Night!  We motivate you to value your sisterhoods, and love yourself, cause if you don't do it, how are you going to love somebody else?

Wordless Wednesday

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Date Nights

Date Nights are a must in a healthy, positive marriage, but after so many date nights sometimes you have to become creative.  What do you do for date nights?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: Be a Servant for Love...

If he has a need,
if she has a need and you can fulfill it.
Do it.
Don't even ask why.
That's why you are married to each other.
To serve each other.

Let go of the anger
Let go of the what ifs
Why spend valuable time being upset
Serve the one you'll spend the rest of your life with

Wordless Wednesday (Beauty of RWOC)

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Mistress Friends & Marriage

Unfortunately there are women out there who totally disrespect marriages.  What if one of those women were you best friend.  How do you handle a friend who is a mistress?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY

When you get motivated, you can accomplish almost anything. You can get motivated to lose weight, get motivated to exercise, get motivated to study, get motivated to write a book, or get motivated to do anything possible to make sure your marriage is successful.

Understand Your Life Purpose

Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.
- Judy Garland

Wordless Wednesday (Sisterhood)

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: Marriage & Facebook

The Scenario

After being in a marriage for a while, its so much harder to keep those flames burning, so you've been trying to come up with ways to keep the flames in your relationship.  You've been planning sexy date nights, sending sexy text, trying to have intimate conversations, seeking compliments, etc.  One day your spouse keeps the computer screen open, and is logged on to fb.  You read it cause its in your face.  You realize that some of the same things that you've been trying to get your spouse to do with you, he's been doing for someone else via facebook.  How do you deal with this?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY: You get what you put in...

Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.
– Barnett R. Brickner

I love this quote, cause it basically tells me that you get what you put into your marriage.  If you act like you don't need anyone, if you were raised to not depend on anyone and you bring  that to your marriage, then most likely that wall, that independence will grow in your marriage, and you will not get the full affect of becoming one with your spouse.  Think about the choices you make, if after thinking you realize that there are negative things that you have brought into your marriage we motivate you to put in the positive.  Make a change...