HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: LOVE VS SECURITY

Have you watched the VH1 show Basketball Wives? Well this show is full of Drama! The common thread in all the women on this show, they're either not married, divorced or on the verge of getting a divorce, and one that's in denial.


It seems as though some women have a tendency to mix up love and security . I'm learning that women tend to fall more into financial security and men into emotional security. Hence the Eric and Jennifer Williams drama. Instead of getting emotional support from her husband she gets it from her friends, and instead of Eric expressing this lack of emotional support to his wife he gets it from groupies. Yet why is it that women believe that a man doesn't love them if he isn't a good provider , and men believe women don't love them if they don't take the emotional roller coaster ride with them . What do you think about love vs security?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY (Forgiveness)

If you've lived together or been married for a while you probably have a lot of stuff stored away. However neatly packed, anything you haven't put to good use for more than a year is probably a burden rather than a blessing. In a similar way, you likely have old stuff tucked away in the corners of your relationship. It is wonderful to dust off your great memories to reminisce and enjoy, but what about the old resentments and perceived affronts?

Forgiveness is essential to a great Marriage. The longer you have lived together, the more important it is that you not accumulate resentments that tempt you to call upon them in times of disagreement. Make a vow to keep disagreements limited to the current issue. Avoid sentences that begin, "You always ..." or "You never ..." such as "You never remember my birthday." If something happened long ago, forgive and forget. Even if it happened yesterday, consider granting forgiveness for your own sake as well as your partner's. Forgiveness is especially a blessing upon the person doing the forgiving.

Let today be the day you do an emotional housecleaning of your relationship. Gather up all your old emotional baggage and put it out with the trash.

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: TEXTING DURING SEX!

I came across a study that said that 31% of people don't mind being interrupted when having sex! Other findings of the study, 26% of people polled think it's cool to be connected during the honeymoon!

Since when was sex not enough to hold a person's attention? Persons guilty of doing this tell me something are you Surgeons, or on call?

Do you text during meals?
What about when using the restroom?

Not judging whatever floats your boat, is fine with me, but how much is to much electronics?

MOTIVATIONAL MONDAY

Husbands love your wives just as Christ loved the church. Ephesians 5:25

Its easy to forget your original vows, and reasons for getting married when going through tough times, but try to remember that you have to get married every minute,
not just on your wedding day.

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY

HOT TOPIC TUESDAY: KISSING

How much do you kiss in your marriage?

Ninety-eight percent of women say that kissing is either important or very important when in a relationship, and half of those women admit that they don't kiss in their relationships!

This important because that's how we connect with someone we're interested in and what makes us feel that he's connecting back, and its a great start to forplay!

How much do you kiss in your marriage?